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       What to ask your obstetrician?  
 



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by Heisje de Jong,
Certified Lactation Consultant

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Before you choose your obstetrician, it is a good idea to make a basic plan about how you would like your delivery to be. Gather information, make a plan and write down a list of questions that you want to ask your obstetrician. Be specific in your requests to avoid misunderstandings later.
Bear in mind that many doctors have their own routines about medical interventions and pain relief options during labor and birth. Be sure to ask about this. (For more information on these topics see the articles: Medical interventions during labor and birth and Pain relief during labor and birth). Discuss your plan and questions with your obstetrician and see if he is supportive of your ideas.

   

I have compiled for you a list of questions you may want to ask your obstetrician. See if you want to use some of these.

· What is your attitude towards Natural Childbirth?
· Can my partner be present at the delivery?
· How often do you do ultrasound during the pregnancy?
· What is your policy on inducing delivery when a woman is over her due date?
· How often and when do you perform a cesarean?
· What is your policy concerning epidurals?
· Do you routinely perform episiotomies or do you try to avoid them?
· How often do you do vaginal exams during labor?
· Do you insist on an intravenous drip, continuous electronic fetal monitoring, shaving the perineum, enema before delivery?
· Do you routinely use Pitocin (to help remove the placenta) after birth, or do you prefer it to happen naturally?
· Under what conditions do you perform vacuum extractions or forceps delivery?
· Can I use a warm shower or bath as pain relief in labor?
· Can I eat and drink during labor?
· Can I walk, squat or do my yoga exercises during labor?
· Can I choose the position I want to deliver in?
· How long do you wait before clamping the cord?
· Can I have the baby with me for a while and breastfeed him before he is being examined?

If you make the appointment with your doctor, it is probably worth saying that you have made a list of questions that you would like to discuss with him. Good communication with your doctor is very important. The feeling that he is supportive of your ideas is very reassuring for you and can take a great deal of anxiety away. If you do not feel comfortable with a particular doctor do not hesitate to look for someone else. Do not forget it is all about your body, your delivery and your baby!

 

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